When did you adopt your pet from AARF?: July 2026
Pet’s AARF Name: Mimi
Pet’s New Name (if you changed it): Phoebe
How is your adopted pet doing? Phoebe (formerly Mimi; I changed her name to something that sounded similar so she didn’t get confused, but I couldn’t have a dog whose name means “grandma” to so many southerners) is doing mostly great. She’s warmed up to my home pretty well, for a dog who is so anxious, and she mostly trusts me. She’s beginning to make friends with my more sociable cat, even though she’s a little scared of her. She follows me everywhere and gets upset if she can’t see me. She’s picked up on so many words just by me using them passively. Currently, I’m working with her on being more confident and not having to be glued to me in order to feel safe. This is a struggle, as she thinks the floor is lava. But we’re working on it! She’s wonderful at walking on a leash and we’ve been going to a little path surrounding a church out here nearly every morning or night (but never during the day because it’s been over 85 and I don’t want her getting heat exhaustion!), where she has come to recognize some of the other dogs who get walked there frequently. I can tell she wants to play with them, but the second any of them move too quickly, she gets scared and runs away. Lotta work we have to do, but she improves a little every day, so I’m hoping we can get there! I’ve been working with a family friend with a degree in canine psychology to try to pinpoint why Phoebe acts like she does and how we can work around her skittish nature and help her be confident, but it’s slow going. Progress is not made overnight, after all. But I’m willing to work with her as long as she needs it. Currently, she is laying on me, sleeping, as she does most of the time I am home. We’ll be going out for our evening walk shortly, but I can’t wake her up. That’s illegal. Even though I know we have a lot of work ahead of us, she’s a wonderful dog, and I look forward to all the years I’ll have with her. I’m so happy I found her 🙂